A threesome may be the fantasy of any guy, but women generally are a bit skeptical when it comes to share their man with another woman, even for only one night. So if you want to try a threesome, but you don’t know how to convince your girlfriend to have one, here you have some tips which will help you in this respect.
1. It’s all about communication
Communication is the key in every relationship and in most cases is the answer for every problem. If you want to try a threesome, talk with your partner, explain your reasons and try to understand her restraints. If she agrees, let her choose the location, the time and how much the other person will be involved in the action.
2. She is the most important
When you have a threesome, make sure you show her that she’s the special one. Otherwise she will feel threatened, insecure or undesired. It matters not only the night of the act, but also the day after. Give her more attention, prepare coffee or breakfast for her. Make her feel that she’s the only one.
3. Choose the right third person
You should be selective when it comes to the other woman you will spend the night. She may be either a stranger or someone you know. In both cases, there is an awkward situation. In the first case, you don’t know that person and her past and that’s a little worry. In the second scenario, you know that person and you will remember that night each time you see her.
4. Don’t ask for more
If your girlfriend accepted once the threesome, you should appreciate that and don’t ask for more threesome nights in a short interval of time. If you do, she will not feel alright and that may raise a problem in your relationship.