Masturbation Tips to Please Yourself

Masturbation is still a taboo subject either it comes for men or women. As a woman, you have probably tried such pleasure, but here you have some moves that will help you intensify the pleasure.

  • Down on your belly

This is an easy and simple move, because you have to lie on your stomach and stimulate your clitoris using your hand. Try different moves and move your hips up and down in order to intensify the sensations.

  • Clitoris tapping

Tapping the clitoris can lead to intense sensations, because you can press and speed up as you want. Lie on the back with one leg bent and the other outstretched and start stimulating your clitoris, tapping harder or faster. Also, you can use lube to make things easier.

  • Aiming G-spot

This position will be a sure way to have an orgasm, if you succeed to get to G-spot. While you lie on your back, bring your knees close to your chest and go with your fingers deeply in the vagina. Once you get there, curl your fingers and start an up and down move speeding up. You can bend one leg or put a pillow under your back in order to maximize pleasure.

  • Circling

This kind of move is perfect if you enjoy clitoral stimulation the most. It will help you stimulate all c-spot nerves and experiment electric sensations throughout the body. You can make this move from any position you find comfortable and that will allow you to make circles around your clitoris. Also, you can change the speed and pressure according to your sensations.

  • Pressing the pelvis

Using your palm, rub your pelvis and your clitoris, pushing up and down gently. Keeping your hand right there, start to intensify the rhythm and press harder on your clitoris.


Sex Games for the Experts

Sex games can give both you and your partner the excitant sex night you dream of and they can even make the sex act funnier. Here you have some sex games which will make your life between the sheets much more interesting and will also help you discover new ways to please yourselves and climax.

  1. Time bomb

For this game you need a clock timer. Once you choose an interval of time, set the rule that this interval should be only for the foreplay, penetration is not allowed. This is a creative game, through which you will know each other better and have a funny foreplay. Also, it will make both of you really aroused for what it has to come.

  1. Close shave

This is not really a game, but it will make both of you feel more intimate. Leave your partner shave your pubic hair. After you take a hot bath, either alone or together, ask him to take the razor and the shaving cream and gently shave you. Some people think this is strange and scary, but some women find it interesting and exciting, so just give it a try and see how it works for you.

  1. Prisoners

This is a very exciting game because you will stay tied with neckties to the bedpost. Your partner will tie your wrists and ankles and he will do everything he wants with you. It is extremely erotic to feel powerless and to be the center of his attention. If you don’t have bedposts, improvise and find different methods to be held as a prisoner.

  1. Blind game

Your partner needs to be blindfold. You may choose your scarf, his neckties or a blindfold. Start the game in bed or in any other location and proceed be seducing them and guiding them to you. This will open up all their othe senses, so that they can feel extremely excited.

How to Be Naughty in Bed – 5 Kinky Sex Games

Spice up your sex life with some funny, exciting and extremely naughty games. You deserve that and your partner as well. So don’t be shy, leave all your inhibitions right out the door and spend some nice time along with your lover. Try these games below and transform your sex life for the better.

  1. Play cards

Take a deck of card and give to each suit a signification. You can choose from kissing, manual stimulation, oral sex or erotic massage. Pick cards in turns and please each other with the sexy moves it draws. The number of the drawn card represents the interval of time you should perform the action. This game is very interesting and you will spend a funny and exciting time.

  1. Play with sex toys

Hide some of your favorite sex toys in different parts of your house and ask you partner to find them. Once he succeeds to find one, play with it and then continue to look for the others. This will be a great game to try as it will blow your minds.

  1. Naughty questions

While you have a long car trip, ask your partner some naughty questions about his fantasies. You will have to guess what his fantasy is and then you can take turns. This way you will better know each other’s sexy desires.

  1. Mutual pleasure

Stay side by side in bed and start stimulating yourselves manually. If you come first, you give your partner either manual or oral stimulation until they feel the maximum pleasure too. But the first who reaches the line has the right to ask for a sexy treatment. This game will make you feel more intimate and will give you a wonderful experience.

  1. Forward or back?

This is an interesting game through which you will know each other better. While you stay naked in bed, your partner stays at the doorway of the bedroom. You will ask him some questions about you and if he knows the answer he’ll make a step closer to you, if not he’ll step back.

4 Exciting Sex Games to Try as Foreplay

You can make your life in bedroom more interesting and funny by playing some games which will make you enjoy each other. That is a good way to spend some nice time together and escape from daily routine. Here you have some funny sex games that you can try to boost your foreplay action and make it more interesting.

1. Truth or dare
This is one of the most known games and it is perfect to transform it into an interesting sex game. You need some imagination in order to find out some new things about your partner. Set a rule from the start that the one who doesn’t want to answer the questions will get a sex penalty.

2. Sex Twister
You remember for sure that game and all those acrobatic positions. Well, this makes it perfect for an exciting and funny sex game. This time you and your partner should be naked. Sounds good? Spin the wheel and go where it indicates; be sure you won’t topple over. For more excitement, distract your partner attention with arousing moves.

3. Spin the bottle
Another game from the youth can be easily turned into a sex game. You can use the bottle of wine you just emptied and start the game in a good mood. You also need a piece of paper to write sexy requests for both of you. Spin the bottle taking turns and perform on your partner whatever action the bottle indicates.

4. Sex in the closet
Maybe your closet is not off-limits and you both can stay comfortable there; if not, that will make the sex even more exciting. Wait for your partner there and start kissing her/him once she/he steps into. That will definitely turn on both of you. To make the game more interesting, set a rule that who speaks first, loses and has to perform a sex penalty.


3 Tips to Make Her Orgasm with your Mouth

oral sex tipsMen might think they know what oral sex really means when it comes to women but a recent report showed that women have claimed that their partners have no idea how to satisfy them with their tongues or mouth or face. While the facts might hurt, guys, it’s time you took a stand and showed them what you are really made of. Here is how you can satisfy your ladies with your tongue and give them the best oral sex they ever had.

  1. The lower the better

While it is right for a man to work on a woman’s clitoris, it should only be a pit stop for him while he is on his way to his real destination. Stimulating the clitoris will arouse her while working on her opening when make her flow. An orgasm is guaranteed.

  1. Insertion is a must

If you are good at sex, you would know that an insertion in a woman’s vagina is a must whether you are penetrating her with your manhood or you are mouthing her. When it comes to oral sex, always remember to use your tongue or fingers to make her climax. Sucking, although important, is not the only tool you should use during oral sex.

  1. Rub your lips the right way

During oral sex, at regular intervals, rub your lips or your mouth on her entire vagina. There is nothing more appealing to a woman than seeing a face soaked with her fluids and physically, it is a dream come true for her. Maneuver your mouth from top to bottom and in circular motions and wait for her to moan or react to ensure you are doing it right. Congratulations, you are officially a pro at eating her out!


Tips for Simultaneous Orgasm

The ultimate goal of a partnered sexual encounter and popular myth fueled by movie scenes, mutual orgasms don’t rear their head very often, mainly because of the difference in timing that occurs between men and women’s orgasms. It’s difficult, but not impossible, and you can increase your chances with the right moves.

  1. Speed things up

It’s always the man who seems like he is in a hurry to get to the finish line, but he doesn’t have to cross it alone, if he takes the time to help his partner speed up the pace of her own pleasure. Introducing a toy, such as a vibrator, into your sex life, can do wonders for her orgasm and the speed at which she gets there. Better yet, stimulate her in multiple ways at the same time, with the help of the toy, to cut down on the time it takes her to reach climax.

  1. Slow things down

Given the fact that women usually take longer to climax, the couple may get positive results if they slow the pace a little bit. Or at least, he does. Holding out is not the easiest task in the world, but he can delay his own orgasm by not engaging in overly-vigorous penetration and focusing on her pleasure, until she’s ready to go. Only can he get his own release.

  1. Multiply

Let’s get scientific. By following simple math, your probability for a mutual orgasm increases, the more orgasms you produce in each other. So basically, the more orgasms the both of you have, the more likely you are that you end up climaxing together, by sheer statistical probability. So work at it and give each other multiple orgasms and you should absolutely get to have one together. It’s science!

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Two Reasons Why Men Like a Smaller Bust

You see all these people out there getting breast implants in order to have a bigger cup size. This might cause you to think that bigger is better, and you might wonder if guys like only big boobs as well. Well, the truth of the matter is people don’t’ understand what guys like. Guys like both big and small breasts. In this blog post, you’ll find out why some guys prefer women with smaller breasts.

The first thing is they aren’t just looking at the chest. They’re looking at the rest of the body as well. Some women might have a small cup size, but then they make up for it by having a skinny frame and a nice backside. These will help compensate for the lack of breasts, and guys will still be driven wild. Men don’t just like breasts, they like other things as well.

A second thing to think about is thinking beyond the physical. Society put so much emphasis on the body that it’s what most people look at. There is a person there as well, and that’s what guys fall in love with. They may not have big breasts, but then again their personality might shine through regardless of how they look. Remember, it’s not always what’s on the outside that matters, but on the inside too.

If you’re wondering if guys like smaller breasts, the answer is yes. There are so many types of girls out there and there is always a guy that loves that type. So don’t worry about bust size, it isn’t everything when it comes to attraction.

Tips for Achieving Multiple Orgasms

1. Ladies first
Nice guys always finish last, if they care about their lady’s pleasure. By focusing on you for the first part of the act and getting you to have an orgasm, the first step towards multiples has already been made. Climaxing first offers you plenty of time and stimulation to get the chance of doing it again, while he’s chasing his own orgasm.

2. Relax, take it easy
The song lyrics couldn’t be truer. The key to any orgasm, let alone multiple, is to relax. It may seem like a no-brainer to some, but more often than not, women, especially, are so determined to get there, that they end up missing out because of stress or the pressure they put on themselves.

3. Think about something else
No, the suggestion is not to make a mental grocery list while ignoring your partner, but rather not making the multiple-orgasm goal the focus of your sexual encounter. Focus on the experience, instead, on your partner and on how they are making you feel. Don’t forget that enjoying yourselves is the purpose here, and that you’re not competing in the Orgasm Olympics.

4. Experiment
Ok, so you know that this-and-that position can make you orgasm, but who knows how many others can help you achieve that performance? You never know how it will make you feel, until you try it, which is why it is important (and healthy!) to change it up and try new things. When something is not working for you or you’re stuck in a sexual rut, flip things around, modify positions and experiment with what feels good.

5. Toy story
Toys are not only for the kinky or adventurous, and they can prove themselves to be indispensable tools in your multiple-orgasm pursuit. Not that you can’t achieve multiples without them, but they can definitely introduce you to new sensations and bring you to unexplored heights of pleasure.

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How to Improve Your Orgasms

1. Don’t skip the foreplay

A prolonged foreplay is an annoyance to some, especially if you’re the impatient type that just wants to “get to the good part”. However, engaging in a long foreplay not only stimulates you to the maximum, but it also prolongs the anticipation, and that can be one of the key factors in achieving incredible orgasms. The longer you wait and tease and postpone the big moment, the more you build up the anticipation, which makes the final release that more spectacular, precisely because you’ve been waiting for so long.

2. Give instructions

It may not sound terribly sexy, but giving your partner instructions on your soft spots and showing him how to touch you is the best way to achieve mind-blowing results. Feedback is the key to an improved experience, here. As they say, “Different strokes for different folks” and you can’t expect your partner to know exactly what you like and how you like it, unless you get involved by telling them, showing them or even placing their hands where you want them. They will be grateful for the tips and you will benefit from it again and again and again.

3. Do it yourself

Of course, in order to know what you like and be able to instruct your partner accordingly, you have to do a little experimentation, and try different things, first. And we’re not talking about sleeping around (although that might work for some!), but about taking some time for yourself and learning what, exactly, produces an orgasm and how you can build upon that. You obviously can’t teach others how to make you orgasm, without knowing how to do it, yourself, can you? So it only makes sense that learning this on your own would be the first step to good orgasm and a great sex life.

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Sex is…

“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able  to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s  almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this  moment you’re a part of them.”