Lasting long in bed with a partner you admire or love is one of the most important things you can do for them. Being able to completely satisfy your woman brings a great sense of manliness for a guy who wants to stick around long term and is sincere with his partner.
But what happens when men unintentionally cannot last long in bed? Does that mean they are not sincere? Certainly not!
Premature ejaculation has long been an issue for many men and continue to be an issue consistently. Understanding girlfriends or wives try to accommodate their men at first but sooner or later, even they feel that this problem needs to be fixed! You can’t blame them because all they want to do is have a great time in bed with you!
Firstly and most importantly, there is nothing to worry about because with a little help, this problem CAN be fixed for anyone who is genuinely interested and works towards it.
The next important thing is that men who struggle with this disorder need to start believing in themselves and focus on the facts like, this is a common problem, there are solutions present for every kind of man and that it is NOT their fault.
Men who are able to overcome their fears of premature ejaculation are able to improve their relationships, not only sexually but emotionally as well. Women feel that their men are taking good care of them and see them working towards it every time in bed.
Moving on, as far as my experience goes, men who constantly worry about ejaculating prematurely have more difficulties in solving this problem. Here are a couple of techniques to help you surpass problems related to this disorder, allow you to satisfy your woman and eventually have an amazing orgasm yourself at the right time:
Remember – You are in control:
Premature ejaculation is more of a mental disorder than a physical one. Psychologically you can have complete control over yourself. I have read that some men, in order to last longer in bed, try to wander off with their thoughts for just a couple of minutes in order to take their minds off orgasms. Have that mental control over your body which will take you to that extra mile and don’t worry, soon you’ll be back in that orgasm mind-frame and will enjoy releasing yourself once you are done satisfying your woman.
More sex means longer sex:
Another proven theory by the male experts that I stumbled on was the fact that, if you are having sex on a regular basis, you will be able to last longer, as and when you please. If your penis is seeing action after a long time, naturally, the first round will be the shortest because at the end of the day, the blood rush is out of control but as you keep giving your penis a stable share of pleasure from time to time, it gets used to the action and the feeling is familiar, which is the perfect time for you to keep control on premature ejaculation.
Allow your woman to assist you:
At the end of the day, your problem is also her problem and she wants it gone as much as you do and she might even be very willing to help out. If you are at that comfort level with your partner, ask her to try the squeeze technique on your penis when you feel the rush to orgasm. She simply has to apply a squeezing force to the tip of your penis which allows the blood to move back from the front of the penis and brings down the ejaculating sensation. She would be more than glad to do it if it means her orgasm is next.
Don’t rush it but work on her orgasm first:
It doesn’t matter how long your sex session lasts for, what matters is that both partners got a chance to orgasm and are satisfied at the end. Introduce techniques like foreplay, oral or grab a sex toy and stimulate her with it so that there are more chances of her climaxing first. Once she is done, you can lead the lovemaking for your own pleasure.
My advice just doesn’t end here! There are so many more useful tips and highly accredited ways of lasting longer in bed for a better relationship and I am going to show you all of them. Watch the following videos and get unique insights on this matter:
Video 1 – Can You Last 30 Minutes During Sex?